One of the most difficult problems we can face in life is to be emotionally abused by those who are supposed to be caring for us. The unfortunate reality is, it happens to thousands of people every day and they are not only abused, they are manipulated in a wide variety of ways.
Although it is true that each of us may react to the emotional abuse we face in different ways, there are also some similarities as well.
Perhaps you are unaware of the fact that someone you love has been through such a dramatic problem, but if you look at the way that they display love, it may show that there is something below the surface.
The following are 5 different ways that an emotionally abused person may show love differently. This is not going to be the same for everyone, but it will often fit.
Gentleness – When the relationship is rather
young, they tend to play it cool and keep their distance. They
don’t want to seem as if they are clingy. Because of their
experiences, they realize that each person needs their space.
Guarded – Because of the abuse that has been
experienced up to this point, many of them may seem as if they are
unemotional or cold at times. This is not meant as a personal
attack on you, it is a protection for themselves. If they allow you
in, you will find that they have a big heart.
Opening up – The person who has experienced emotional abuse may have a difficulty opening up and allowing you to be part of their personal lives. If they do decide to let you inside, you may experience the wide range of emotions that will come flowing your way.
Going Slow – They may not be as quick to jump into a relationship as you would like. Perhaps you have been burned by this type of situation before. Although they may take things slow, they do want to work in that direction but they don’t want to expose their vulnerability.
Fear – It may seem as if everything is going along perfectly but their insecurities can crop up without any prior notice. They may feel as if the love they are experiencing is too good to be true and they fear the possibility they may wake up and realize it is no longer there.
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